5 Ways to Add Some Magic to the Bedroom

There’s something about cold, long nights that brings out a little witchy vibe in us. Maybe it’s the urge to reconnect with old traditions or perhaps we’ve simply watched every show and are looking for something new. Either way, you don’t need to be a witch to dabble in a bit of sex magic this winter. Here are some fun ways to get a little mystical in the bedroom:

1. Light a candle
   Lighting a candle can be a powerful ritual to focus your intentions and desires. Pick an intention, like attracting a partner, boosting your sex life, cultivating self-love, or healing from a past breakup. Visualize your goal clearly as you light the candle, and choose one that matches your desire. Use color magic to select the right candle—big candles for big intentions, smaller ones for smaller ones. You can also dress the candle with oil, herbs, or carve a symbol into it. Once it’s lit, set the scene—dim the lights, put on music that aligns with your intention, and meditate on your desires, feeling them in your body as the candle burns.
2. Spice things up
   Herbs and spices carry energy, and when used with intention, they can add some magic to your sex life. If you’re nervous about a date, add a bit of lavender to your tea or latte. For abundant love, try rose tea. Want to heat things up? Use cayenne, paprika, cinnamon, or ginger. As you prepare the food or drink, focus on what you’re trying to bring into your life. You can also work with spices alone—write down the name of someone you’d like to attract, sprinkle cinnamon on it, trace a circle around the name three times, and visualize the energy you’re calling in.
3. Harness the elements
   Nature’s forces can help you release blocks that are preventing you from fully embracing pleasure. Whether it’s the lingering energy of an ex or limiting beliefs about your sexuality, clearing those blocks can be powerful.
   • Water: While in the shower, imagine the water washing away any emotional or energetic blockages. Add salt to supercharge the ritual, especially rubbing it over your heart and abdomen.
   • Fire: To release emotional baggage, write about your block for five minutes. Reflect on what it’s held you back from, how it feels, and any pain you’re still carrying. Then, safely burn the paper outside, watching it transform and release your written words.
4. Use your words
   Writing down or speaking your desires is a form of magic. If you have a sexual fantasy or a desire you want to bring into reality, write it down in detail, in the present tense. As you write, feel the emotions and sensations of your desires as if they’re already happening. Keep your written spell somewhere visible and read it every night, almost like a prayer for pleasure. It’s a simple but powerful way to manifest what you want.
5. Visualize what you want
   Visualization can be an incredibly effective tool for manifesting the sexual experiences you desire. A technique you can try during sex is visualizing a spiral of erotic energy. As you move, imagine a small orb of energy forming in your pelvis. Watch it grow, spreading through your body, until it reaches the crown of your head, connecting you to the universe. Then, let the energy flow back through you from both your partner and the universe, building toward an orgasmic release. You can set an intention for this energy, and as you climax, your spell will complete.

Whether you’re adding a pinch of cinnamon to your latte or using visualization during intimate moments, embrace the magic within you and see where it leads.