5 Ways to Win Over Your BFFs
February often gets all the attention because of Valentine’s Day, but let’s not forget about Galentine’s Day (February 13th), which definitely deserves its moment. But even if that’s not your thing, you don’t need a special holiday to show your appreciation for your besties. Expressing love for our friends can be something we do all year round. We don’t always think about “wooing” our platonic friends, but friendships can have their own version of a honeymoon phase, just like romantic relationships. Even your ride-or-die friend might need a little extra care now and then. When we get comfortable with someone, it’s easy to let life get in the way of showing them how much they mean to us.
So, how can you “woo” your BFF? The goal isn’t to make them fall head over heels for you, but to deepen the connection you already share. Unless, of course, you are actually in love with your bestie, in which case… you might want to read this right now.
Send them “Good morning” voice notes
Pick a week—especially if you know your friend has some big things coming up—and send them a “Good morning” voice note each day to help start their morning with a smile. Sure, you could just text “gm,” but hearing someone’s voice feels extra special and shows you took the time to brighten their day. Don’t just stop at “good morning,” though! You can use this chance to hype them up and remind them how amazing they are.
Send their favorite treat to their job or house
Flowers are a classic way to brighten your bestie’s day, but if they’re not really into flowers, try something different. Use Amazon to send them something they love, just because. It doesn’t have to be a big deal or tied to a holiday. For example, if your friend can’t get enough of red Starbursts, send them a whole month’s supply. It’s the thoughtful little things that count.
Be a good listener
Friendship is all about give and take. If your friend is always there for you when you need someone to listen, make sure you return the favor. Being a good listener isn’t just about paying attention during a conversation; it’s about being attuned to your friend’s needs, noticing when they need your help, and understanding how they want you to show up for them.
Plan a friend date
It can be easy to get caught up in life’s hustle and bustle, but it’s important to carve out time for your BFF. Plan a friend date and do something you both love. If you’re far apart, get creative. Use apps like Teleparty to watch a movie together or have a virtual wine and cheese tasting. Cooking the same meal and sharing it over FaceTime is another fun idea. Technology can make it easier to stay close, even when you’re physically apart.
Send them a handwritten letter
Okay, hear me out: snail mail is making a comeback. While it’s super easy to send texts or DMs, taking the time to handwrite a card and put it in the mail feels extra personal. It’s a small gesture that says, “You’re worth the effort.” Your bestie will appreciate the thoughtfulness of receiving a surprise letter in the mail.
No matter what your bestie loves or what their interests are, one thing is always true: every day is a good day to show them how much they mean to you.
