How to Choose the Perfect Sex Toy for Everyone on Your List
This year has been tough for everyone, and the holiday season already feels different from what we’re used to. Gone are the cookie swaps, latke parties, communal eggnog bowls, and caroling around the piano. It would be easy to just want to curl up and wish the year away. But instead of that, why not spread some holiday cheer in a fun and unexpected way—by giving the gift of pleasure to those you care about?
Sure, a sex toy for your partner sounds like a no-brainer, but think bigger. Sex toy use has skyrocketed during the pandemic as people spend more time at home. Couples are experimenting, and solo folks are finding new ways to get intimate, sometimes with the help of toys. Maybe you could gift one to your bestie who’s missing in-person dating, your roommate who’s separated from their partner, or even your virtual book club pals who spend more time talking about sex than the latest novels. Just make sure to get consent first—a quick text asking if it’s okay will make sure everyone is on board.
Here are some great options to consider:
- For the Toy Newbie: Bullet Vibe
If your friend is new to sex toys or a little shy about them, a bullet vibe is a great choice. They’re discreet, easy to use, and small enough to hide. But don’t be fooled—they pack a punch when it comes to external stimulation. - For the Jewelry Lover: Vibe Necklace
For someone who likes a mix of functionality and style, a vibe necklace might be perfect. The Crave Vesper vibe necklace is a thin, stainless steel necklace that doubles as a toy. It’s sleek, stylish, and comes off easily for use or charging. Available in silver, gold, and rose gold, this one’s perfect for those who want something a little fancier. - For the Classic Toy Lover: Wand Vibe
If your gift recipient loves a bit more power, consider a wand vibrator. Bigger than a bullet vibe, these toys are great for people who need strong external stimulation. The Hitachi Magic Wand is the gold standard for many, but there are plenty of affordable options too. - For the G-Spot or P-Spot Curious: A Curved Toy
For those looking to explore deeper, curved vibrators and dildos are designed to target the G-spot. If you’re buying for a penis owner, consider a prostate stimulator. Some multi-end toys even combine internal and external stimulation for added pleasure. - For the Oral Sex Enthusiast: Clit Suction Toy
Clitoral suction toys are all the rage right now. These toys use pulsating air to mimic the feeling of oral sex. They come in many different styles, some with internal stimulation features or even small tongue-like vibrators. - For the Masturbator: A Sleeve
Masturbation sleeves, like the Fleshlight, are designed to mimic the sensation of partner sex. These can be cylindrical, with the penis sliding in and out, or flat sheets that wrap around. Some even include vibrators for extra fun. - For Penis Owners and Their Partners: Vibrating Rings
These aren’t just for the jewelry-obsessed! Vibrating rings slip onto the base of the penis, providing vibration during penetration. They’re great for those who want a little extra pleasure, and for partners who need clitoral stimulation during sex. If penetration causes discomfort, consider the OhNut, which is a non-sex toy sleeve designed to limit thrust depth. - For the Anal-Play Curious: Butt Plugs
Butt plugs are a great introduction to anal play, available in a variety of sizes and materials. They’re designed with a flared base to keep them safe during use. If you’re gifting one to a beginner, start small! - For the Long-Distance Couple: App-Controlled Toys
Teledildonics are here for couples who are apart. These toys sync with apps, allowing a partner to control the intensity of the toy from a distance. It’s a fun way to stay intimate when separated, though they tend to be pricier. - For the One Who Has Everything: Cute Toys
For someone who already has a collection, consider a cute toy from the brand Cute Little Fuckers. Their toys come in adorable character shapes and are made to be both functional and fun, complete with their own identity and webcomic series.
Many of these toys are just a few clicks away, with plenty of websites selling directly from the manufacturer or through specialized sex toy retailers. You can also find them at bigger stores like Amazon, Target, or CVS, which now offer a selection both online and in-store. Don’t forget to throw in some high-quality lube (water-based is safest) to complete the gift, and you might just be the holiday hero this year.
And hey, while you’re at it, why not grab a little something for yourself too? You deserve it!
